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Home  blifestyle The Fuck Buddy
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Wednesday, 19 December 2007 |
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What you need to know to find a casual sex buddy.
A dear friend of mine once said to me that people come into your life for a lifetime, a season or a reason. Well in one’s life some people’s reason is to help you relax. No, not a masseur or natural therapist but a fuck buddy, that is, someone whose sole purpose is to come and go. Literally.
Sometimes you are in between relationships or too busy to date but still have the urge to release, If this sounds like you, then a fuck buddy is someone to help you though such a crisis. But where can you find these delicious creatures?
They might be that guy that you dated in the past and it didn’t work as a couple but the bedroom antics were so hot that you just had to keep those going.
Or, you could pick one up from your local chatroom. But remember to always handle with caution when using the ‘net.
Some people have one, others have a few, but the rules are always the same.
Firstly, you never discuss your life. If one must talk then keep it very light – just discuss things as if you were talking to a total stranger. You have your life. They have theirs. No need to mix.
Next is that you don’t see them all the time. It’s not a regular thing like doing your laundry every Wednesday night. Your levels of friskiness will dictate when you should give them a buzz.
Remember to be flexible as you both have lives and may be busy. Who knows why, just remember to send a simple sms like “what you’re doing?” to get the ball going. No need to write Gone with the Wind part 2. Tell your buddy what you want. No discretion necessary as it’s unlikely your buddy will be on the guest list to your next birthday.
The aim of the game is to have fun, so why not try out those fantasies or new positions you’ve wanted to experiment with but were too afraid to with someone you were actually dating. Everyone always wants to impress and not muck up a good thing, so a buddy is a great outlet for sexual exploration. And, as they are in the same boat, they won’t be too judgemental.
So the equation is take a relationship, divide the time spent together, minus being a couple, add on the sex subtract the feelings and multiply the fun – all that equals a fuck buddy.
by KLINTON PORTER |
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